Category: Life

Lifestyle, People, Family, Relationships, Parenting, and Introspection according to how life be lifing.

  • One of the coolest projects I’ve had so far is slowly…tragically descending into a Hollywood Divorce *le sigh* I’m a magnet for the dramatic (there’s an epitaph) #badguy Here’s the reality of it all. A job — any job is one of many The same can’t be said for a family member. For a grandfather.…

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  • Trust Issues

    I’m in a weird and fragile place right now. It’s difficult to trust anyone not family: with my things, with money, with agreements.

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  • Year 2020

    2020 will be a big year for me. By “big”, I mean different.

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  • As I’m building a very complex web project for a client, I’m learning a lot about front-end, backend, and WordPress. Also, I’m learning about prioritizing time and preparing presentations to manage expectations — ideas outside of my comfort zone. Today, while causing friction with my client by persistently moving completion dates, I’m enjoying only the…

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  • If you’re an Artist and feel like it’s hard to be that Artist you’re doing something wrong something is broken – Me to Me

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  • Granpa Tilley Passing

    Granpa Tilley passed away last night. No more weakness or medications. No more pain and denial. He lived a long, full life. His body let him down before his mind did, so he watched it all playout aware. Two Funerals My grandmother will bury her Ride or Die this year. The year she buried her…

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  • I got Ani to drink from a hose pipe today. Let’s see what happens. – Ancient Parenting Proverb

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  • Tell Someone Tuesday 1. I’m a converted ambidextrous person. 24 years on this side. #noweakhand 2. I won’t argue with you if we’re not working toward agreeing/middleground. I’ll bail. You win. 3. Recently, I’m obsessed with two things: peace and outsourcing. My little brother is the main inspiration of my pursuit of peace. Tim Ferriss…

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  • I want to try out dating apps again. But I don’t want to use my name. I’m thinking something monosyllabic like Buck or Hal. Maybe even Rob.

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  • Children need structure. My nature is the opposite of structure. So, while my children will see me as the fun parent, they might also see me as the parent that stresses them out. One positive is that if either or both get into stand-up comedy, they should have a good bit of material.

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  • Stick to the habits, Michael. Your feelings are Kryptonite to task-completion. Stay in the game. Time block. Get it done.

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  • This is me trying to explain How I fall in love with strangers every day

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