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I might be too much for someone to be romantically involved with long-term. It could be in my head or that I haven’t met someone, in my dating adventures since the divorce, who doesn’t make me feel like my reactions to things that bother me are overreactions.
My therapist tells me it’s important to tell a romantic partner your boundaries and things that bother you. I trust the professional. I do. But in real-life scenarios with a woman, some of those conversations. become an argument or a text message telling me we’re not a good fit or both of things.
I don’t feel like I’m undateable. Intuitively, I think I’m rational, eligible, and available. But the evidence against the argument is really piling up.
Honestly, I don’t want to keep having these “what’s wrong with me” talks with my therapist. It doesn’t feel like progress. It feels like doing detective work and going in circles.
It might just be time to focus on yourself, King.