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It’s no good being vague about your intentions to have a relationship with someone. You have to consider that the best way for someone to make an informed decision is when they are informed with all of the information.
To be clear, I’m speaking in second person, but the advice I’m giving is for myself. I have a habit of being vague about the kind of relationship I want with someone. To be less vague, I have a friend who I would like to build with – personally and professionally.
For years, I have hinted, tiptoed around, and even wrote some poetry. Why? I couldn’t tell you exactly. The point remains my friend who isn’t psychic has probably processed it as awkward, weird energy. Probably even confusing. But most importantly, I assume she thinks I don’t want that from her because I haven’t asked or made my intentions clear.
The irony in this case is that I know the young lady is someone who values directness.
To summarize my point, and not giving the other person all of the information doesn’t help either one of you move forward.