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I study people like I’m getting a grade for it. That’s who I am. That’s what I do.
I’m trying something new with the way I argue/debate. I came to understand the other persons point of view and/or what drives it.
It feels like the most objective way I can approach a difference of opinions.
Pivoting my goal in an argument from being right to understanding the other person will fast-track my [understanding people]
Understand People
People are complex creatures.
I think that pivoting my goal in an argument from being right to understanding the other person will fast-track my learning.
I believe this because I have a living example who has shown me indirectly that it works.
If you go to my father with a problem, you’ll notice he’s not doing most of the talking. He’s offering very little judgment. He’s listening to understand.
It’s a new concept for me. I’m going to give it a try and see what happens.
I’m going to predict the outcome is that I’ll develop a better sense of objectivity and better preserve my inner peace.