I’ve been a pushover, and it didn’t work out for me.
Lately and regularly, I’ve dared me to ask for what I want. First, I was curious to see a difference in my interactions if I dabbled in being more taker.
Then, I liked it. I liked being less stressed about outcomes, because the outcomes carried less uncertainty.
I’m going to stay here a while.
Asker
Maybe the sweet balance of being both a Giver and a Taker should be called an Asker.
I would describe an Asker as a Giver bold enough to ask for what he wants [in life].